One of the most common questions I’m asked by new authors is “Why should I go to writing conferences?”
Their reasons for thinking conferences are not something they want to do are many. The most common reasons are:
- They are too expensive.
- I’m just a beginner. I’m going to feel foolish with all those published authors.
- I’m just a beginner. I could never talk to a publisher or agent.
- I wouldn’t know what to do or say.
- I don’t have anything ready to show an editor or publisher.
- I’ll feel out of place and be alone because I don’t know anyone.
If you are a just starting your writing journey, here are some answers to those comments.
Too expensive. Yes, some conferences are very expensive, but others aren’t. Not only is the conference itself have a cost, but there is also the cost of travel, possibly housing, possibly childcare, and other incidental costs to be prepared. So, let’s look at options. One-day conferences are less expensive than those lasting multiple days. If you need to start with something small, do so. Conferences close to home have less additional costs. Talk to other writers, check writing websites, or go on google and find out what is in your area. Some conferences have full or partial scholarships or reduced tuition if you are willing to help at the conference. Working can be a plus for new writers. It helps to get acquainted with writers and those involved in the publishing industry in your area. Get creative. If you really want to go, talk to the conference organizers. Tell them about your desire. They might know of a way you can come for less money.
Foolish talking to published authors. I won’t deny there are some rude, narcissistic authors, but they are not the norm. Most authors are excited about the craft of writing and enjoy helping newbies. Most will find time to talk to you and encourage you on your writing journey.
Could not talk to a publisher or agent. Think about it. If there aren’t any writers, the publishers and agents don’t have jobs. They can’t depend on their current best-selling authors to be around forever. They are always looking for next new sensation to become a best-selling author. They are real people who are in the business because they like working with people. Believe me, publishers and agents are not scary monsters. Go in prepared with the right attitude and they are fun people to talk to.
Don’t know what to do. Yes, conferences can be confusing with all the activity. But the organizers know how hard it can be for first time attendees. Everyone on the staff has badges or shirts that clearly identify them. They can and do help attendees find their way around and figure out where to go and what to do. They will frequently help figure out who the new author needs to talk to. And it’s not just the conference staff. Frequently others who’ve been at that conference before will see someone looking bewildered, stop, and offer help.
Nothing to show. It is always good to have a manuscript or at least an article. But if you don’t, you can talk about your plans. Ask for suggestions. How can you make the idea the best it can be? Is your idea overworked? If so, how can you make it unique? There is so much you can learn, having something to show is not a requirement. The contacts and networking can be of incredible value down the road on your writing journey.
Out of place and alone. If you look statistics, most writers are introverts. That doesn’t mean we don’t like people. We just prefer them in small groups and need quiet time to recharge our batteries. I won’t deny that makes conferences difficult for introverts. I can attest to this because I power my way through the noise, crowds, and constant activity of 3-4-day conferences. Then I turn off the phone and hide for about a week to recover. The important thing to remember is you are not alone. Those other introverts at the conference are also looking for someone with whom to connect. Everyone at a writing conference reacts positively to the question “So, what do you write?” It starts the conversation in a safe place and allows us to connect on common ground. It allows to have the very small group discussion we enjoy and feel welcome in. Don’t tell the conference leaders this, but I also recommend sometimes sneaking out for an hour and find a place to be alone and get a little 
rest. And before I get attacked by some of my friends, yes, I know there are some writers who are extroverts and love all the activity of a conference.
I’m sure you’ve noticed I haven’t said much about classes at the conference. When writers consider going to a conference, it’s easy to look at the class offerings and determine if there are classes about the writing areas we need or want. I’ve rarely been asked the why go to a conference question concerning the classes. The only time I’m asked that was regarding a specific conference, such as which of these two conferences has the best classes for me considering where I am as an author.
Find a conference, go, learn, and enjoy the time with other writers